How can i move out at 16? How hard will it be? and how can i get my family to stop being so ridiculous?

It's going to be extremely hard. If your in school and got a job, its a better percentage of you doing better. You could get you a room or move in with a roommate (male/female your choice). Then continue living your life. But its going to be hard just living without your immediate family, that's the people you've grown up around and know. So, it might be hard for you to get close to future/current spouses, friends, and associates. I say try to have a real conversation of how you feel with the one's you have a problem with. If you have to do it individually, best when they're in a good mood, not to push buttons.